Your boyfriend doesn’t like your job

February 5, 2012|How to find a job, Interesting Facts, Tips At work| No comments yet

Are you seeking new employment because your boyfriend doesn’t like your job? The first thing you need to consider is whether you like the job yourself. Is it a job to which you have no objection but no emotional connection either? Getting a new job might be acceptable as long as you make sure the new one holds just as much appeal and pays just as well as the old one. Do you dislike your current job as much as your boyfriend does? By all means, then, look for something different.

However, if you are extremely satisfied in your current job, don’t let your boyfriend steer you in a different direction. If you’re leaving your job, it should be for you and nobody else. There’s a chance that your boyfriend might not even be around in a year or two, while you will be in a new job wishing that you had stuck with the old one. If he has disdain for the employment you have chosen, you might want to consider whether this is really the guy for you anyway. A man who loves you will support your choices, even if they might not be as glamorous or high-paying as they could be.

On the other hand, he could be trying to support you and show you that you are worthy of something better. If it is merely lack of confidence that has you trapped in your current job, take the time to put together a resume that you can use to woo future employers. Don’t lie about any of your accomplishments, but don’t downrate yourself either. People have a tendency to sell themselves short, and your boyfriend may be able to help you see some of the skills you have and the contributions that you are able to make.

If this is something that he brings up frequently, have a talk with him about the reasons for his disapproval. This will help you hash out all the issues and determine whether the problem is with your job, your self-esteem or your boyfriend. Every job can have dignity and merit, and it is ultimately up to you to decide whether your own job holds that kind of value for you. If it does not, don’t just accept things as they are. Carefully craft your resume so that it highlights your worthiness to potential employers and then start looking for another job. Life is too precious to settle for less than what you can be.